Does this sound familiar?
You want support from someone who gets it and does not ask you to mask or explain your existence
You are navigating trauma, identity questions, transitions, or the weight of oppressive systems
You are part of a couple or polycule that feels stuck in the same patterns and you need help from someone who understands
You are questioning your gender or sexuality and want space to explore it without labels, or expectations.
You have left or are considering leaving the United States as an LGBTQ person and need support during the transition
If any of those resonate with you,
you're in the right place.
Many therapeutic and coaching systems were designed around narrow ideas of normal, safety, and success. For queer people, neurodivergent people, and polyamorous couples, those systems can feel alienating at best, and actively harmful at worst.
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I offer care that is affirming, relational, and deeply human. The work centers your lived experience, your values, and your autonomy. There is no agenda to make you smaller, quieter, or more palatable.
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Here, the goal is not fitting in. The goal is rising into yourself.
Queer/LGBTQ+ Folks
Affirming care for queer people navigating identity, safety, intimacy, and self expression. This is a space where your queerness is not questioned, explained away, or treated as a phase, but honored as central to who you are and who you are becoming.
Neurodivergent Folks
Neuroaffirming support for autistic, ADHD, and otherwise neurodivergent adults. The work centers unmasking, nervous system support, burnout recovery, and building ways of living that do not require constant self erasure.
Polycules/Non-Traditional Relationships
Support for couples, polycules, and chosen families who want to move out of stuck patterns and into clearer communication, trust, and consent. Care is grounded in respect for non monogamy and relationship structures that exist outside the mainstream.
Expats and Major Life Transitions
Support for queer people navigating migration, relocation, and major life shifts. This work holds the grief, disorientation, and possibility that come with leaving one life and rising into another.
Counseling and Coaching for:

Hey there, I'm Ryn.
I am a queer, trans, neurospicy counselor and coach who shows up with honesty, warmth, and lived experience. I believe healing starts with integrity, curiosity, and compassion for every part of you.
I support people who want deeper self-understanding, relief from old patterns, and more freedom in how they move through the world. My work blends evidence based methods with a real human connection.
If you want support from someone who truly gets it and meets you without judgment or pressure, you are in the right place.
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Get the Help You Need
You can feel at home in your queer or neurodivergent identity, supported in non traditional relationships, and grounded while moving through major life transitions or relocation.
For Providers
Consulting
Consulting that helps practitioners translate understanding of neurodivergence, sexuality, and gender into confident clinical practice.
